Expectant Church

I have a dream of a church which is an expectant church

whose members can never settle down in material

affluence or comfort, because they remember that

they are strangers and pilgrims on earth,

which is all the more faithful and active because it is

waiting and looking for its Lord to return,

which keeps the flame of the Christian hope burning

brightly in a dark, despairing world,

which on the day of Christ will not shrink from him

in shame, but rise up joyfully to greet him.

I have a dream of an expectant church.

-John Stott

 

With this encouragement from John Stott, we bring to a close our reflections on A Living Church.

Over the past four weeks we have heard from many parishioners speaking about their passion for ministry and sharing about moments when God’s presence has been experienced in various ways. I thank all those who have shared about worship and fellowship, growing faith in children, youth and adults of every age, congregational care, and outreach into our communities.

And the standing invitation is there for your prayerful consideration. Where might God be calling you to fulfill your vocation as a Christian? It may be in the marketplace, among those with whom you live and socialize, it may be in places where you volunteer your time and talent, or it may be here within the church walls.

Wherever it might be, we are summoned to steward the gifts that God has graciously given us to bear witness to Christ’s reign courageously, to love generously, and to give faithfully.

We turn our attention now to the great promise of Hebrews chapter 4, verse 16,

Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

 -Fr. Chris

“Is anything holding me back?”

In sitting down to write you this week, I put to myself a challenging task. On the one hand, I want to be the caring pastor and shepherd to the flock expected of me. On the other hand, part of being the caring pastor and shepherd from time to time is gently challenging those committed to my charge. The old adage, “comfort the afflicted and afflict the comfortable” comes to mind!

In this there is New Testament precedence. Paul’s heart as a pastor and encourager is found in his letter to the Philippians: “I thank my God in all my remembrance of you, always in every prayer of mine for you all making my prayer with joy, because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now. And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion on the day of Jesus Christ.” Paul comes alongside as an encourager, rejoicing in his partnership with these people. I rejoice in my partnership with you.

I am compelled, as well, by the spirit of Hebrews 10:24: “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another ….” The King James Version puts it a little more strongly: “and let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works.” My aim is to encourage, and while provoke might be too strong a word, perhaps goad is a better one.

My subject is returning to in-person worship. Candidly, I wish to see more of you attending Sunday services. Part of this is selfish – there is more energy when there are more people. You are missed when you are not here, and some of you I have not seen in 15 months or longer!

Then there is the Church’s long conviction that the body of Christ is intended to be corporate in nature. We are not simply individuals who happen to belong to a certain congregation. In truth, what we are is the local expression of God’s one, holy, catholic and apostolic church. And we are embedded in this holy and sometimes maddening body. So, when we are dispersed as we have been for so long, the body is weakened by the absence of its members.

So, let me put this question before you as plainly as I can: if you are fully vaccinated and going out to dinner or having people over in your home, exercising at the gym and otherwise carrying on as you were pre-covid, then what is keeping you from attending Sunday worship? This is a judgment free zone; I simply ask you to ask yourself this question!

If you (or your spouse) have an underlying health issue, or you are not fully vaccinated and do not plan to be for whatever reason, or if you are concerned about your unvaccinated children, I can understand that.

If you are caring for an elderly relative, or working on Sunday morning and evening, or getting out and enjoying some travel after having been cooped-up for so many months, I get that, too.

But if these categories don’t apply to you, ask yourself “What is holding me back?”

As St. Paul would remind his readers, know that I love you. AND know that it is for your well-being that you be in church on Sunday. Plus, more people means more joy! We have three services – more than usual for the summer – because we want you to know that there are more opportunities - safer ones - than at any time since March 2020.

Lastly, did I say that I miss seeing you?

Affectionately,

Fr. Chris

“Recommended not Required”

A little over a week ago, the Center for Disease Control released new guidelines, essentially stating that in keeping with local guidelines and ordinances fully vaccinated people may choose not to wear facemasks. Consequently, the Tri-County Health Department, which covers Arapahoe County where our church is located, moved to Level Clear on the Simplified COVID-19 Dial on May 16.

The effect of this was to lift capacity restrictions completely, so businesses, schools, restaurants, and other facilities could open at 100% capacity, while at the same time modifying the face-covering order for indoor spaces.

Tri-County refers us to the Colorado Department of Public Health and Environment where the following concerning the latest guidance and requirements regarding mask wearing is stated:

The amended Executive Order states that fully vaccinated people can go without masks in public indoor spaces unless the setting requires otherwise.
 
Unvaccinated people over age 11 are encouraged to continue wearing masks in all public indoor spaces where members of different households are present.

 

(Source: https://covid19.colorado.gov/mask-guidance)

 

How does this impact us at Saint Gabriel the Archangel?

 

Rose Lynch, Preparedness Committee chair and Junior Warden and I have consulted with the vestry, staff, and wardens, and I have had many conversations with parishioners attempting to listen and gauge where we are as a community. I have also surveyed several neighboring congregations of different traditions. While it will not be pleasing for everyone, the sense I am receiving is that we are ready to make incremental changes as we see rates of vaccinations rise, opportunities for youth and adults ages 12+ to receive widely available vaccines, and case rates fall in our community.

Please note that as of May 23, Pentecost Sunday, the following will be in place:

Changing:

· Masks will be “recommended not required” at all services and weekly meetings, Bible studies, etc., for those who are fully vaccinated, while strongly encouraging mask wearing for those who have not yet received vaccination for whatever reason

· Suspending required worship service advance registration

Retaining:

· clergy mask wearing during services – at the celebration of the Eucharist, times when observing and not speaking

· pew ribbons to keep distance between worshippers

· hand sanitizer available throughout the building

· communion in bread only

· coming forward to receive communion, with clergy using tongs, gloves, mask wearing

· "no contact" passing the peace

· keeping doors and windows open when people are inside the building

· coffee service (when available) outside in Greeting Garden (west entrance)

· current method of distributing bulletins - online version - Issuu and .pdf - and brief service outline handout

· 9:30 am service livestreaming online

A Pastoral Word

As Saint Gabriel has sought throughout the past 14 months, we aspire to offer the sacraments and services of the church to as many people as possible in as safe a manner as possible. And as a Christian community, we seek to regard others with honor and respect especially when people hold different views.

I recall the first time I went to a dinner party where masks were set aside. Although by that time I was fully vaccinated, it still made me feel slightly uneasy at first. It will take time for some of us to be comfortable not wearing masks if we choose to do so. Some groups of people, like younger children or people who are at high risk and undergoing medical treatment or those with compromised immune systems, cannot receive a vaccination or must exercise extra caution. We see those among us and treat them with the highest concern for their safety with love and compassion.

A fellow pastor, Ryan Gannett of Park Church, Denver, puts it well in his remarks to his church, with which I close this post:

Masks have become a politicized and polarizing point of contention in our culture, and the Adversary would love to fracture and divide us (1 Peter 5:8). As we interact with others who have differences of opinion and conscience, let’s be vigilant to abstain from both judgmental attitudes and being an offense or stumbling block to others (Romans 14). Let’s pursue a spirit of unity, sympathy, and humility (1 Peter 3:8). And, as we build new rhythms of gathering together for worship, community, and mission, may our lives be marked by the Spirit’s love, peace, patience, kindness, and gentleness toward one another (Galatians 5:22–23).

I remain grateful to serve a community that exhibits the Christ-like qualities spoken to in the paragraph above.

Faithfully yours,

Fr. Chris

Building the Bridge

As Palm Sunday and Holy Week fast approach, it feels as if we are entering a new pandemic-related phase in our nation and here in our community. Vaccinations are on the rise, economic stimulus checks are arriving, schools and restaurants are reopening. What does this mean for Saint Gabriel?

A year ago, I was trying to figure out how best to keep us all connected and focused on Jesus, the cornerstone of our community. I was learning as much as I could about new technologies and, aided by competent staff members and outside consultants, we were making it work. Amid the uncertainty of how long the pandemic would last, we did our best to provide accurate and timely information to the church community. A senior leadership cohort came together with weekly Saturday Zoom meetings. As March stretched into April and April into May with no end in sight to the pandemic, we began to talk about resuming in person worship while developing our online presence.

Fast forward to March 2021 and the new phase we’re entering. Simply put, last year I was figuring out how best to record the Easter Fire in my backyard. God-willing, this year we will light the Easter Fire outside in the Greeting Garden at Saint Gabriel. Last year five of us – 3 staff and 2 clergy - huddled together on Easter Day using my iPhone for our first Facebook Live service. I was so nervous, my iPhone camera should have been in landscape position, but I had begun the service with the camera shooting portrait – so, on your computers the image was sideways! This year we have a typical Holy Week planned - with some obvious minor adjustments.

Enough looking back. What about the gaze ahead?

With inoculations and vaccines ramping up, many in our community are receiving their shots. We know the pandemic is far from over, but many local jurisdictions are moving to a less restricted level. In Arapahoe County, we are moving this week to level “Blue” on the Covid Dial.

Mindful of all this, I wish to pose a question -

What are the conditions under which you envision returning to in-person worship and other activities to Saint Gabriel?

There is no right or wrong answer, but I hope you will take the time to clarify your own thinking around this question.

My hunch is that we will be in different places. Some folks are already venturing out to restaurants, going to movies, getting on airplanes, and eating meals in each other’s homes. Some folks aren’t quite so ready to do that. Each person and household is deciding what to do, as it should be.

Here’s what I am working toward for us at Saint Gabriel. Let’s call it “Building the Bridge.”

  • In-person Children and Family Ministry resumes this Sunday, March 21 at 9:30 in the parish hall with a Zoom option.

  • Next, at the 8 am service on Easter Day we will offer a “parking lot” service, just as we did on Christmas Eve. If you wish to be on the grounds on Easter Day to receive Eucharist, you can come to the service held in our parking. This will be followed by an age-segmented and thoughtfully orchestrated Egg Hunt outside (weather permitting).

  • Sometime in early May, we plan on resuming the Gathering, our 5 pm Sunday afternoon service. This will take the place of the Zoom Evening Prayer that we’ve hosted since autumn.

  • Weather permitting, we would like to resume some kind of outdoor Coffee Hour – maybe starting just with coffee!

  • Other groups in the church, Bible studies and fellowship groups can resume meeting in the parish hall.

Again, we will proceed cautiously and keep in place our safety protocols of mask wearing, hand sanitizer/washing, keeping physical distancing, and open-air flow in both the parish hall and the nave/sanctuary.

All of this is intended to help us “build the bridge” back to resuming normal church living. It won’t happen all at once and we may have to retreat if the pandemic rages again with a 3rd wave, but it is something we can look forward to. And of course, we will continue livestreaming our Sunday liturgies.

Why “building the bridge”? This of the shutdown – it was harsh and abrupt. We all had reason to be cautious, but some of our caution turned to fearfulness. We can’t assume everyone can just start as quickly as we shut down. It will take time for us to be comfortable resuming our previous activities.

So, just as a bridge links two separated pieces of land, so building the bridge will link our present life with our desired life. As we cross the bridge of caution, we hope to gain confidence that the desired life is not only possible, but that with each step it is in reach. God-willing, eventually we will be on the desired life side and over time this will indeed become our present life.

Again, I ask you to consider for yourself the question, What are the conditions under which you envision returning in-person to Saint Gabriel for worship and other activities?

We are blessed at Saint Gabriel to have come so far in 12 months. I thank you for your perseverance and faithfulness during this time. It may take longer for some people to return to the church building. For those who elect not to return in the next few months, and for those who decide to return we hold one another in high regard. We choose not to judge others based on our own choices. We hold one another up in prayer, mutual consideration, and love.

Under the mercy,

Fr. Chris

How to Practice Sabbath-keeping with Home-based Worship

This past Sunday our livestreaming encountered technical difficulties. When this happens – or when we just want to hold a quiet time without turning on electronic devices - what can we do with our time to keep the Sabbath and rest in God’s goodness and love?

As people who are shaped by the regular pattern of assembling on Sunday mornings for worship – what earlier Christians termed “keeping the Sabbath Day” - it is good to be reminded that people from different households coming together for worship at one central location has not always been the case. The first century church seems to have enjoyed multi-family gatherings (think synagogue worship) as well as home-church assemblies. For the first several centuries of the church, home-based small groups were the principal means of meeting together, with a decentralized leadership structure not concentrated on a rigid division between lay and ordained clergy, and during time when there were no church buildings to speak of.

Even today across the world, the house church movement is a vital part of the church’s life, especially in places of persecution or government restrictions on gathering such as in China, or some Muslim-majority countries for example. Remembering this can set our current context into perspective.

Yet on those occasions when technology fails, I suggest the following simple practices.

Centering and Responding to God’s Grace

The first practice is to use the time you have set aside for a kind of centering prayer.

I find the so-called Serenity Prayer to be helpful.

Here is the Serenity Prayer –

God grant me the serenity

To accept the things I cannot change;

Courage to change the things I can;

And wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;

Enjoying one moment at a time;

Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;

Taking, as He did, this sinful world

As it is, not as I would have it;

Trusting that He will make things right

If I surrender to His Will;

So that I may be reasonably happy in this life

And supremely happy with Him

Forever and ever in the next. Amen.

 

After you have centered (however that is done best for you), you might focus next on listing the things for which you are grateful –

Your heated home, food in the fridge, network of family and friends, hope for the future, your cat or dog, an anticipated walk, or a cherished novel you are working your way through, or the people who are keeping the doors of the church open week-to-week even if you cannot be present at this time. Whatever it may be, name your gratitude.

Light a candle before, during or after you have done these things, and then pray a psalm of praise together – I often think that our response to the chaos of the world around us would be better kept in perspective if we centered on praise or even lament rather than always leading with our intercessions.

One such psalm is Psalm 118.

And then when this is completed, enjoy the day that the Lord has made!

Use our Episcopal Resources

The second practice that I think we can observe is this. We can observe the Sabbath and keep worship front and center on Sundays by going to the Book of Common Prayer.

Use your copy of the Book of Common Prayer for Morning Prayer or what is called Ante-Communion. Rite II Morning Prayer is found on pages 75-102, or it can be easily accessed online here. Additionally, you might run a website search for a special favorite hymn on YouTube to play during Morning Prayer. You may also find brief devotionals for individuals and families on pages 137-140. There are one-page prayers and readings for In the Morning, At Noon, In the Early Evening, and At the Close of Day.

Ante-Communion refers to the first half of the Eucharistic Service, up through the Peace, on pages 355-360 in the prayer book. Again, you can access this here.

These are more formal ways of worshipping together in a household or on your own. If you live alone, you may wish to call up a friend and together with the prayer book service opened, you can pray together.

I hope these suggestions are helpful for you. I appreciate that we have been in this situation for 12 long months. We do not know when we will be given a green light to resume joyfully gathering as many of as possible in one place. In the meantime, let us celebrate what by God’s grace we will continue to have in the days and months to come - whether that is through technology such as livestreaming or through the basic means of grace that we have been given in the older technologies of books, candles, and simple music.

Joyfully –

Let us worship the Lord!

Thanks be to God!

-Chris Ditzenberger 

A Word to the Church – November 16, 2020

For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ.

~ 2 Corinthians 4

 

As the corona virus increases across our region, Rose Lynch, Preparedness chair and Junior Warden, and I are following these developments closely. There may come a day when it becomes necessary to shutter our doors once again for in-person worship and other gatherings, and we will keep you informed as to any change in service plans.

I.  Where we are today

We have learned throughout the last six months that keeping Saint Gabriel’s doors open for in-person worship provides a profound sign of hope, even for those who are viewing the online worship service. By remaining open for in-person worship this “sign of hope” fits within Colorado’s COVID-19 guidelines and the “dial” system created by the Colorado Department of Public Health and Environment. Even if the dial were to advance to a “stay-at-home” directive – a last resort according to government officials – we would still be able to welcome a total of 10 persons present per service. We are not committed to an unbending course of action but, as I have said all along, we will keep doing what we are doing until we can’t.

Even with just 10 people present an important theological statement is made. As a sign and symbol of God’s redeemed people gathered, theologically we continue resisting the ways in which this disease – a sign of our broken and fallen world – has taken over. We say a loud “No, we will not let the disease define us totally or have the last word.” We would continue to proclaim our identity as resurrection people and as people of hope in the God “who is making all things new.”

Let me remind you of Saint Paul, encouraging the people in Corinth with his example:

But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 10 We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11 For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that his life may also be revealed in our mortal body. 12 So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you. (2 Corinthians 4)

It is this affirmation of the “life of Jesus” that marks his followers as people of profound hope and security. With this security, we are free to offer ourselves in service and love.

For example, I may be anxious about entering the hospital ICU to pray for a dying parishioner – as I did this past week – but I know that it is the right thing to do. Many of my colleagues feel the same way and are doing the same thing. The call of Christ compels us to enter the brokenness of the world – its pain and suffering – and declare Christ is risen! He is risen indeed!

Of course we are committed to following our safety protocols of mask wearing, physical distancing, hand washing and sanitizer, shortened services, registering all attendees, and adequate air flow by keeping doors and windows open – even on frigid mornings! We seek to be courageous but not foolish. Faithful but not neglecting safety.

Safety and hope need not be competing goods but can – and should - complement one another.

Currently, Arapahoe County allows our offices to be staffed and in-person worship to be held to 25% of our capacity or 50 people, whichever is less. We calculate that our top number is 40 for the nave and 25-30 for the parish hall. In fact, our current average numbers are closer to 20 in the nave and 15 in the parish hall.

I say again, we will of course let you know if anything changes.

II. What are the “goods” of public worship during a pandemic?

Across the pond in the UK, faith leaders recently wrote to the Prime Minister, Boris Johnson, outlining why they believe that religious groups – churches, synagogues, mosques, etc. – should be permitted to remain open despite the government-imposed lockdown. This appeal to the Prime Minister can be accessed in its entirety here, and I recommend it along with the blog post by the Rev. Dr. Ian Paul where he offers commentary on the matter, an excerpt of which is below, that may be found here.


“The letter makes five strong points in favour of continuing to allow acts of public worship:

Public Worship is covid-19 secure 

We have demonstrated, by our action, that places of worship and public worship can be made safe from Covid transmission. Given the significant work we have already done, we consider there to be, now, no scientific justification for the wholesale suspension of public worship.

Public Worship is Essential to sustain our service

Without the worshipping community, our social action and support cannot be energized and sustained indefinitely. Our commitment to care for others comes directly from our faith, which must be sustained and strengthened by our meeting together in common worship.

Public Worship is necessary for social cohesion and connectedness

Increasing social scientific evidence makes clear that social connectedness, solidarity and social cohesion are key to both enabling people to stay resilient throughout restrictions due to covid-19 and central to compliance with the behaviors we need them to adopt to reduce transmission.

Public Worship is important for the Mental Health of our nation

The health benefits of attending worship are well known, and the burden of psychological and physical ill-health from isolation and during the pandemic are increasingly well understood. This is especially so for Black Asian and Minority Ethnic people.

Public Worship is an essential sign of hope

From a social psychological perspective, faith communities who consistently embody behaviors and attitudes that are covid-19 safe and hopeful provide encouragement to others through modeling these behaviors and attitudes. They are part of the journey to recovery.

Miscellaneous Thoughts on the Election

As I write on Wednesday morning, we do not yet know the result of the presidential election. We do know how Colorado voted and we do know that in many other parts of the country the election is very close. Democrat Michael Wear tweeted “Here’s what I’m sure of after yesterday: we cannot continue to operate as if half of the country does not exist.”

Former National Review columnist Jonah Goldberg made the observation this morning that while “politics feels more divisive than at any other point since at least the 1960s” and that Americans have been “self-sorting for a long time” (which means affiliating with like-minded people with the same world view), organized religion can fulfil a role “as a binding force in our culture.” While organized religion has receded as this binding force, in my view it can become that again. It might take a mighty work of Jehovah to bring it about, to be sure!

When we think about our local church community here at Saint Gabriel, I think we can be encouraged. We may feel passionately about our political situation. I personally know many people who are passionately blue and passionately red, equally committed in their faith. Even so, we come together at the foot of the cross equally in need of God’s grace and salvation. We come to the communion table to be assured of Christ’s presence in our hearts as we partake of the bread and wine.

Before COVID-19 I was always bemused at the sight of two in our congregation who couldn’t be further apart in terms of politics, yet who sat together and cared for one another week-by-week.

I don’t want us to be a place where we have a thin veneer of politeness (though I hope we are always polite to one another) and paper over our political differences, but rather I hope we can be a place where politics are understood to be penultimate. The place of ultimacy lies with the King of kings and Lord of lords.  

At the same time, I hope we can be a place where people grow in clarity about bringing biblical perspectives on justice and righteousness to bear on the issues facing us today – whether they be primarily economic, international, environmental or social. For the Christian politics should not be about me and my tribe as much as how I fit in to the commonwealth – what do I bring to the table to help secure the flourishing of the whole?

If we don’t first come to the voting booth remembering our baptism – and the baptismal vows undertaken as we stepped into the waters of the font – then our faith remains in the private sphere alone and our faith is disengaged from the world in which we live. If we work together to forge our voting life and our community engagement from the perspective of the biblical story, then our politics is a way to love God and our neighbor.

To the exiled people of God living in Babylon, much like the church lives in a foreign land, Jeremiah 29 exhorts,

Build houses and live in them; plant gardens and eat their produce. Take wives and have sons and daughters; take wives for your sons, and give your daughters in marriage, that they may bear sons and daughters; multiply there, and do not decrease. 7 But seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare.

Let us go in peace to love and serve the Lord!

What to do with Grief

Well, it is May. “April is the cruelest month” T. S. Eliot tells us, but May … May is a delight! If we have a yard or garden it is likely bursting with greenness. Birds can be heard singing sweetly in the trees. People are out and about, even more so this year.

This year, (and you know what I mean …), this May is a May of stark contrasts. Everything is as it should be in the garden, but not everything is as it should be in the home, street and neighborhood.

I learned on Thursday, March 12 from our bishop that we would not be having Sunday service in the church building, and that this would be reviewed on March 31. Of course, we’ve had to suspend so much since that time, and even now we don’t have a timetable to reengage even a portion of what we used to enjoy. We’re a full 50 days into this season of church leaders are calling “shelter in grace,” with the understanding that taking prudent measures are another way to love our neighbor, even when it leads to our own disadvantage.

Often over the last 50 days I’ve awakened with a sense of grief, a sense of loss, a sense of heaviness. Not that my own life is suffering, comparatively speaking. Not at all. For that I am grateful and undeserving. Nevertheless, there is loss.

Early in the 50 days I rise for the day and for the brief moment of slumber’s lingering peace, do not recall that we’re living in the midst of a pandemic. It is a blissful moment but one that is fleeting. Reality right now is cold and unbending. Reality does not know how to pronounce the word “grace.” There is currently no preventative vaccine or prevalent and conclusive treatment leading to a cure for COVID-19. Much remains unknown about this unseen enemy that is wreaking havoc around the world.

I am disadvantaged in minor ways while others are suffering in much greater ways: illness, unemployment, literal confinement, shouldering financial burdens, losing loved ones – and that often at a harsh distance. I need so see my own setbacks in the light of others’ much greater setbacks.

And yet there is a sense of loss that I can – and do – enter. Plans set aside. Children’s expectations thrown overboard. Colleague groups that can no longer meet in person. Endless Zoom meetings and accompanying video conferencing burnout. Church community uncertainty. A cloudy future.

You and other members of your household may be dealing with this in greater or lesser ways. If you are, have you considered taking this grief to the Lord?

This past Sunday I invited children in our Godly Play circle to share what they are missing most about this stay-at-home time. They replied, “seeing my friends,” “my teacher,” “going to the pool to swim.” I then invited them to send me what they write down and I would take their emails or cards and be able to pray for them as they lament their losses.

I invite you to do the same.

There is good biblical precedent with putting our losses and griefs before God. It is called Lament.

The dictionary gives “an expression of grief or sorrow” for lament, but in the biblical understand of Lament, it is “edited language to give expression to our unedited emotions,” as writer David Taylor puts it.

Laments are found chiefly in the wisdom literature of the Old Testament – Psalms and Lamentations especially. Laments follow a basic pattern with an initial complaint (yes, we are given permission to complain to God!), followed by a petition that makes a request of God to give redress to the complainant, and then at its close the speaker comes to a place of resolution, putting the writer back into the care and protection of God, often ending with praise to God.

On Sunday we saw this in the Godly Play circle as we thought about Psalm 13 from the International Children’s Bible (ICB). You can follow the structure easily.

Psalm 13
Complaint
13 How long will you forget me, Lord?
    How long will you hide from me? Forever?
How long must I worry?
    How long must I feel sad in my heart?
    How long will my enemy win over me?
 
Petition
Lord, look at me.
    Answer me, my God.
    Tell me, or I will die.
Otherwise my enemy will say, “I have won!”
    Those against me will rejoice that I’ve been defeated.
 
Resolution
I trust in your love.
    My heart is happy because you saved me.
I sing to the Lord
    because he has taken care of me.

David Taylor offers the following for reflection[i]

  1. What is one thing from this past week that you feel needs to be lamented in your own life? What is one thing that calls for lament in your own community? What is one thing that deserves o be lamented at a national or global level?

  2. What is one thing that is hard for you to lament? What are things that might be easier for you to lament?

  3. What do you think might be lost by not sharing our sadness and our laments as a community? What do you think might be gained by sharing these feelings as a community?

  4. Write out your own psalm of lament, following the basic pattern … write your complaint to God. Write a specific petition of God. Write a resolution to trust that God will hear and heed your petition in a timely fashion, even if it is not according to our timetable. Give yourself permission to end, like Psalm 13, on a tone of hope, or like Psalm 88, in the dust and darkness that may feel all too real. Trust that you are not along in this experience, but that God in Christ is with you, that the Spirit of God interceded for you “with sighs too deep for words” (Romans 8:26), and that others are in a similar place.

What to do with our griefs, minor and major?

We take solace lamenting our woes before our friends, but our friends can only be empathetic. Take your griefs and set them in the context of ordered prayer. Lift them before the Lord.

Laments to pray through: Psalms 6, 11, 17, 26, 38, 41, 44, 74, 77, 79, 80, 83, 85, 86, or 89. Some of these are individually-oriented psalms while others express the lament on behalf of the community. Both are part of the biblical testimony.

Once again, David Taylor:

[Laments] offer a beginning, a middle, and an end, instead of a seemingly meaningless narrative. They present a rhythm of sounds instead of a cacophony of noise…. And in offering these things, the psalms reframe our sense of life.

In the chaos of these days God is still at the center of all things, and through the gift of the psalms of lament God invites us to be centered in him.


[i] See W. David O. Taylor, Open and Unafraid: The Psalms as a Guide to Life, pp. 67-79.