On Wednesday this week the 25th anniversary of my ordination to the priesthood came up and provided me an opportunity to reflect on God’s initial calling on my life and the way that calling has been lived out over the years.
If you’ve been with Saint Gabriel for some time, you’ve heard me share bits and pieces of my story. And if you are newer, this might be of some modest interest. I grew up in Littleton as part of a loving and supportive family. An interest in history and politics that took me first to Gordon College in Wenham, Massachusetts, from which I graduated in 1988 and then led me to move to Washington, DC following graduation. It was during the time at Gordon that I began attending Christ Church, Hamilton-Wenham, a parish in the Episcopal Church of Massachusetts and was drawn immediately to the Anglican way of being Christian.
Later, in the DC area, I felt most welcome at The Falls Church Episcopal, a blossoming colonial-era congregation filled with young professionals and families. My work life at the time was with a think tank, the Ethics and Public Policy Center, where I was the executive assistant to the president, George Weigel, a Roman Catholic theologian. It was while working with George Weigel and involvement in the Salt and Light ministry of young singles at The Falls Church that the draw to ordination began to take root in my imagination.
With the support of wise friends, work colleagues and clergy I explored testing the sense of vocation that was beginning to bubble up within me by attending a non-denominational seminary back in Massachusetts. It was there that I met CJ during my first semester and our relationship quickly developed into a marriage proposal (and acceptance!) following a month of dating – not the advice that we gave to our own children.
Graduate degrees in hand, CJ and I moved to Arlington, Virginia where I formally entered the ordination process in the Episcopal Church. The Bishop of Virginia at the time, Peter Lee (pictured above), required that I attend Virginia Theological Seminary for a full three years in order to earn a second graduate degree, the Master of Divinity.
If my non-denominational seminary taught me theology and church history, VTS shaped me to become a pastor. Gradually I began to see myself as a pastor and a kind of ‘jack-of-all-trades’ one at that, which is really what congregations need in a leader.
Ordination to the diaconate followed in June 1999 and we moved again to Northumberland County, Virginia to the small rural town of Heathsville. It was there that I was further shaped by the local people and recently arrived retirees who called this area home. St. Stephen’s, Heathsville and St. Mary’s, Fleeton, were two congregations where I spent my curacy, working under a wise rector.
And then one day, out of the blue, the Rev. Bob Dannals of Christ Church, Greenville, South Carolina called me and asked me if I would be interested in coming onto his staff. Christ Church is the mother church of Greenville and at the time boasted some 800-900 people on a Sunday. I was the associate rector for discipleship and managed a staff department of five full-time employees. We had five services every Sunday and several during the week.
The four years I was there flew by. CJ also found her wings while there and enjoyed teaching in the religious studies department at the private Episcopal high school associated with Christ Church.
And yet, our hearts were drawn back to Colorado, and so with CJ’s blessing, we began looking at ways to return to here – at least to the mountain west.
The first serious look at a parish in the Denver area fell through, and to be honest it was quite a blow that took me some time to recover from. I began to look elsewhere – to places like San Antonio and the Diocese of the Rio Grand, and I even toyed with Butte, Montana at one point until my dad convinced me that we wouldn’t be happy there.
Looking back, however, God was still present, and we kept praying about Colorado. And it was then that Saint Gabriel opened up. I met with search committee members Ellen Snyder and Barbara Ariss on a quick trip to see my parents and eventually put my name in the ring to be considered. I still remember vividly Hugh Sweeney and Linn Wilson showing up at Christ Church, Greenville to see me in action, and things took off after that. That was in 2005, and our children were 8 and 6, and CJ and I had not yet turned 40. You can do the math about the significant birthdays coming up for both of us!
The vast majority of these past 25 years as an ordained parson have been spent with you. Let me say that you have provided space for me to grow as a pastor, preacher, leader, and, really, as a human being, walking the same Christ-centered path as you. And I thank you for the gift of yourselves that has enriched my family and me in many ways. To be able to give our children the stability to grow up in one place and develop their own roots is a healthful thing not always afforded to clergy families. And so, I am especially grateful for that.
I am eager to wonder and imagine where the next years will take us. I think it is good for us to take one season at a time, knowing that it is the Lord who arranges the days and seasons of our lives.
While I don’t dwell a lot on the past, it is fun to sit here and write about the journey that led me to you and that we have walked together. Thank you for listening to my story once again.
Faithfully yours in Christ,
Fr. Chris